The most impactful mentors aren’t afraid to have difficult conversations or end relationships that aren’t driving growth. Real mentorship requires accountability, not endless coffee chats. Here’s why the best mentors sometimes fire their mentees.
Author: David Ohnstad
David Ohnstad is a Senior Data Product Manager based in Minneapolis, MN, writing weekly about leadership, career development, and professional growth. He has over 15 years of experience in data, technology, and product leadership. Connect at https://davidohnstad.info.
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